And what it reveals about pride, beauty, and a very different understanding of what it means to admire someone If you’ve ever traveled in Italy and offered someone what you thought was a heartfelt compliment especially about their looks, their home, their meal, or their children you may have noticed a strange reaction. A pause. …
The Canary Islands are exactly the kind of place that makes a middle-aged American couple say something dangerous: “We could live here for less.” And they might be right, at first. The weather is easy to fall for. The pace feels human. Daily life can be cheaper than many U.S. metros. Las Palmas and parts …
At ten in the evening in a Madrid summer, the city is just sitting down to dinner. The plazas are filling, the terraces are full, children are still playing in the squares, and the whole social life of the city is unfolding in the warm night air, hours after an American city would have gone …
The American walks into a Spanish restaurant at seven in the evening, hungry for dinner, and the first thing that happens is nothing, because the kitchen is not open, will not be open for an hour or more, and the staff are having their own meal. It is the first of a series of small …
The American on a Spanish beach for the first time experiences a small series of jolts. A woman of any age, topless, entirely unselfconscious, treating it as the most ordinary thing in the world. Families changing at the beach with a casual matter-of-factness. An ease about the body, undressed or partly so, that the American, …
The Portuguese woman in line at the pharmacy in Cascais asks for a specific brand of intimate wash by name, the way an American might ask for a specific shampoo. The pharmacist hands it over without comment. Two products, one for daily use, one for stronger cleansing during menstruation or post-illness. The transaction takes ninety …
French grandmothers do not eat butter like a dare. They eat it like it’s food. A small knob on green beans. A thin smear on bread. A little in a pan for eggs. Butter shows up constantly, but it doesn’t show up as a lifestyle. It’s not a keto badge. It’s not a “treat day.” …
Portugal is not a scam. But it can absolutely become a money shredder for a certain type of American retiree. And California retirees are the easiest target because they often arrive with three things that quietly destroy budgets: Portugal feels cheap compared to the Bay Area or coastal Southern California. That’s the trap. When something …
The premise of the experiment was simple. For forty-five days, eat the way the people around me here actually eat, the real Spanish version of the Mediterranean diet, and see what happens. Not a fad, not a cleanse, just the ordinary food of an ordinary Spanish life, the olive oil and the fish and the …
When Americans step into a European kitchen, they often encounter unexpected cooking rules and traditions that differ from those in the U.S. From ingredient choices to kitchen etiquette, European cooking can feel old-fashioned, precise, or even puzzling to those used to American methods. Here are the most surprising European cooking rules that often confuse Americans. …
The American steps into the spa at a Portuguese hotel or a Lisbon wellness center expecting the familiar routine, the swimsuit, the modest American spa etiquette, the quiet separateness, and encounters instead a set of customs that gives them pause, the different relationship to the body, the rules about what to wear and not wear, …
An American spending their first summer in Europe notices it within days and finds it slightly alarming. The windows are open. Everywhere, all the time, in the heat of summer, Europeans fling their windows wide and let the outside in, where an American would seal the house and crank the air conditioning. To the American, …